In our latest we are touching on the importance of Patience; why it's important, how to have patience with your art, and how this impacts mindfulness to reduce worry and anxiety. I wanted to do a little writeup on this lesson for you to save and refer to, so let's have a chat about this very important skill (and notice I say skill - it's something that most of us must practice to really learn, just like our colouring).
You may have heard about Mindfulness before - we talk about it a lot here. Mindfulness is about being able to be in the present moment, to focus on the task you are doing wholly which helps you let go of any worries about the past or future. This allows you to let go of any feelings of anxiety and just focus on what is in front of you at the present moment,and it's actually a skill that can help you not only destress and take a step back, but it helps you to deal with stressful situations with a clearer mind.
Mindfulness activities often involve a level of instruction and challenge, and this is what helps to occupy your mind more fully than a relaxation task - you are forced to disconnect from some of the pressures of life going on around you to focus on that task you are doing. Your colouring classes here are a good example of a mindful task, so you can see why doing something like can be helpful when you are overwhelmed.. even when you feel like you don't have time. It's just about taking a break, even for just 10 minutes, so you can take a little breather to focus on you, to gain back a bit of control, and to destress.
However, mindfulness takes practice and when we are really stressed or emotionally exhausted, it's very easy to fall out of mindfulness because those worries creep up on you and take over your thoughts and how you are feeling - they distract you from the task you are working on. When you think about, or when you are doing your mindful activity, like your colouring, you may encounter discomfort, pain, numbness, fear, all of those overwhelming emotions that you may be feeling about other things can manifest into your mindful activity. Or, you may even feel restless, like you can't focus on the task in front of you, and you keep jumping from one thing to the next. Or, you may find memories that you've been suppressing come to the surface - your mind is wandering and bringing up other things to think about. All of these things can lead to frustration, disappointment, and make you want to stop your "you time" activity, or even whatever it is you are doing - chores, work.. you may want to get up and just do something else as a distraction (which leads to procrastination).
What this can actually mean is you may lack patience in your mindfulness. What really is patience? Patience is what allows us to pause and accept a situation for what it is. It allows us to accept our emotions and reactions without judging ourselves for them. So, we know that mindfulness is being aware of the present moment without judging it, but our emotions can be very habitual and arise quickly - it takes patience to stop and step back from your initial reactions. If you can apply patience to mindfulness, you give yourself a chance to gain a broader perspective of what's happening so you be a bit more deliberate and present with what you are doing. It allows you to act or not to act as you choose - it helps you gain that self-control over your emotions. It is simply the absence of automatic reaction, which allows you a better, wider perspective from which to act, or not act, as you choose.
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Hope you've found this helpful, if you'd like some more art therapy tips, please check out our free Mindful Me Colouring Class over at www.kitandclowder.com via the Class Rooms tab.
